Children suffer most when the adults divorce, with psychological scars that go so deep that more often than not, they are warped for life. These scars are not obvious as they are not physical scars (although they might manifest into those) but they run very deep and are more difficult to detect and treat / overcome.
This is the reason why, personally, if I got married, I would not divorce my husband unless he seriously threatens my life or the life of any kids we might have. That would be the absolute last resort.
Having said that, I will actually most probably "manage" the situation, if I had to, to his detriment - without killing him or divorcing him. ;-)
/Easier said than done? Lol! You never know what someone is capable of, until they are tested.
//As to the religious teachings that say that I must forgive 70 x 7 - that's for the sainted ones in heaven and not me. I certainly try and do my best to strive for perfection but I'm a work in progress and thus not perfect, you see?
So, on one hand, people perceive divorce as positive as it lets them get out of a wrong decision. If it's just the 2 parties, not so bad but with kids, there are far reaching consequences. People are so egocentric, they think only of themselves.
///Side comment & off topic ... On the other hand, egocentric people are so easy to trip up, because they overestimate themselves and underestimate others.
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Don't want no drama,
No, no drama, no, no, no, no drama
Children suffer most when the adults divorce, with psychological scars that go so deep that more often than not, they are warped for life. These scars are not obvious as they are not physical scars (although they might manifest into those) but they run very deep and are more difficult to detect and treat / overcome.
This is the reason why, personally, if I got married, I would not divorce my husband unless he seriously threatens my life or the life of any kids we might have. That would be the absolute last resort.
Having said that, I will actually most probably "manage" the situation, if I had to, to his detriment - without killing him or divorcing him. ;-)
/Easier said than done? Lol! You never know what someone is capable of, until they are tested.
//As to the religious teachings that say that I must forgive 70 x 7 - that's for the sainted ones in heaven and not me. I certainly try and do my best to strive for perfection but I'm a work in progress and thus not perfect, you see?
So, on one hand, people perceive divorce as positive as it lets them get out of a wrong decision. If it's just the 2 parties, not so bad but with kids, there are far reaching consequences. People are so egocentric, they think only of themselves.
///Side comment & off topic ... On the other hand, egocentric people are so easy to trip up, because they overestimate themselves and underestimate others.
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Don't want no drama,
No, no drama, no, no, no, no drama