in the west, someone wont approach you in a mall to sleep with you, in the west someone wont try to sleep with you if you have your baby with you, people respect marriage more, people wont look at you like you have never seen a woman again, even if I walk with my husband these people cant stop staring!!!!!!!! They look at you like they have never seen a woman before. In the west nobody will ever even look at you and men dont treat you like an object of desire but like an equal contributing partner with a brain