I never said that a child doesnt need her/his mother.. Ofcourse a child needs a mother more than anyone else but what my point is that a man has not right to lay down a condition that i will marry a woman who does not work or who will quit work after marriage.. If I get married and tomorrow when i have a baby, it would be my decision and my choice whether I want to continue working or if I want to be a full time mom.. My husband has no right to tell me what to do.. What if a woman tells her husband that hey hubby, I am a doctor and I earn so well... Why do have to do this measly ten pence job.. why don't you sit at home and be a full time house husband and look after our kids and I will go and earn bread for all of us.. What would he do then? Would he quit his job and sit at home? No he would not.. His ego would be hurt.. I am just against men who like to have a doormat for a wife and who just want to opress the women in his life.. That is my point.