you got a point there yoda, but it might be temporary, but teaching them, letting them know how to put bread in the table for their children would make a lasting happiness than just giving money...

it's like in the old saying, don't give fish, teach them how to fish...

unless we charge for our expertise in teaching them, then it would be free that no money involve, of course how you accomplish it might involve spending money but the idea would be free.

^_^ IMHO.