Er, did you ever think of bringing up your kids yourself?
Or sharing the housework amongst your family? Or cooking for yourselves?

It seems that you prefer to bring in a slave to do all these jobs and to de-humanise her at the same time.

It's a truly disgusting attitude and I've nothing more to say.

"It was a woman who drove me to drink, and I never had the courtesy to thank her for it." W. C. Fields.