Gee Hesa - ever hear of "an accident"? And I'm not saying this is the case here. She made arrangements for baby care and they have gone awry and now she has to make other arrangements.

I would think one would have sympathy for this type of situation. Perhaps you are in a position to offer some kind of assistance? Perhaps you know of someone who could assist? Trying to focus on what one CAN do is far more productive than criticizing - it tends to lead to finding a positive resolution.

And no, I'm not criticizing you, just trying to focus attention to resolving the problem at hand.