When I dress up in my national dress shalwar kameez or sarees or even in western attire like jeans with a long top or long skirts and blouse with my hair open and flying away.. I do not get any attentino.. No one follows me or gives me their numbers but when I don the abaya and cover my hair and go out to the malls.. hundreds of men follow me around, say some sort of comments in arabic, say their cell numbers aloud and one guy even sent me his name and number with the waiter in the coffee shop.. I wonder why?