I watched a movie recently. It was a comedy and wasn't really meant to be taken seriously, however it made a good point. Start saying yes! Any opportunity that comes along, start saying yes to. Someone invites you to do anything, stop making excuses for why you shouldn't do it, and just say yes instead. It puts you in situations and places that you normally wouldn't be in. And suddenly you are being introduced to new people, and then their friends or adult children or relatives. And maybe among all the people you will eventually meet in these different situations you will find your match.