Time management as a starting is v important, knowing wat time left after back from work, then u have according to ur inside to choose what to do daily, one of the following, walking on the cornish, hearing music,call a friend, watching selected program in TV u like it, read a book u wanted be4, through the net u can explore wat u think u want to c. U can be between ppl and feel alone, its u who have to explore her inside and manage ur life according to ur needs. my regards.