We also just moved here 2 months ago. In al saad area (close to Toy's r us) where we stay, 2FF is 10.5K or Semi furnish for 9.5K depending what you want to be included. However, no facilities thou. Well, they planned to set a gym ... but I guess is not happening anytime soon.

As for your wife, she can come to the newcomers coffee held I think every month or so, chek out this linck http://www.dohaexpatmumsandkids.com/NewArrivalsCoffee.html