Singleguy, I read your complaint about your troubles and I read all the comments! I would say there is some good advice here. And even though I don't like alexes that much I must say she is right about what you need to do to figure things out for yourself. I to felt the same way as you. And I have to tell you I got married at 44 to a 28 year old. It wasn't about age,looks,phycial being or even sex. It was for lack of better words that "he got me" I got him" So, if I as a woman can find this at 44 then trust me! as a man you will find this at 40. I don't think you have to lower your standards just change them in a way that you can live with. Oh! and sometimes second best can turn out the be the best after all! Think about that.

good luck

I am always excited to go to sleep! In anticipation of the new experience I will find awaiting me.