Only 1 u want, i want to ask you the following?
1).Did you comparing your Lover with your Dad?
2).Are you expecting the Quality of your father from your Lover?
3).When ever argument starts between both of you, did you said this to Him?
4).Are you dominating him in your day to day life cycle?
5).Did you say to him "You are not capable to take care of your life partner?"
6).Did you teased him for his inability to earn more money?
7).Did you dont know to show your love in smooth way?
8).Did you respected his personnel willings?
9).Did you helped him to meet out his economical needs?
10).Did you complain about his family allways?
Relax and answer all my questions one by one with your peace of mind.Dont irritate by my questions.
When you pointing one person by your index, other other three fingers pointing you also.
So calmely think about this and then frankely speak with him.Have a counselling of both of you.
we are having 5 fingers in our hand.But all are in different size.Like wise man are having different personality.So dont search your father from him.He is a different nature man.So from his mentality you check what best he gave to you and show pure love .May be he will change his attitute because of your divine love.
Have a good peaceful life.