can never really tell i guess.
a lot of gay men are not even effeminate and over refined.
a straight guy can be very close to women and empathize and sparkly clean too..

so i think, it takes time for us to know a guy is on the other side of the fence, unless of course he flaunts it!

but LOLZ on GENESIS with the "DANCE TO - I WILL SURVIVE!"

good morn y'all