From your comments QL, I can tell you have never had a friendship with someone who is gay. It is easy to label them when we don't know them, but if you were to ever begin a friendship with one, I guarantee your views on how they "became" gay would be altered. They are just as much the victims of nature as we are. They can no more choose to love someone of the same sex, than we can choose to love someone of the opposite sex.