Actually, the first part is actually somewhat true.

"Make the Woman happy. Do something she likes, and you get points. Do something she dislikes and points are subtracted. You don't get any points for doing something she expects."

It's the examples and respective points that are a little off though. The problem is that women expect more from men, then the men realise. Therefore the men want points for doing something they believe was special, which in the womans eyes, was something that was expected. For example, the making of the bed. A man thinks that by making the bed, that he is doing the woman a favour. But the woman see's it as a responsibility that should be equally shared, since you both use the bed. Thus the man expects + points when he does this "favour", and then feels like he is taken for granted when this huge "favour" of his is not recognised.