At the back of my mind I am thinking the same way as you do. I need to hear or rather read those words coming from other women to strengthen my conviction.

I have posted my anxieties here in QL because I need objective points of view. Also, because of the delicate matter, I don't want to solicit views from my friends in our workplace. I am also the type of person who don't hang out with friends - I am a homebody. My routine is office-home-office with variation of going to carrefour for groceries. :) So, there's really not too much people that I could ask or share my predicament with.

I need your comments and this forum so that from time to time I could go back and read this whenever I feel weakened in my resolve to come up with a brave front and put an invisible wall between us. I believe that in time, if I will it, my fondness of him will fade and I will maintain my single blessedness!

I am thankful to QL because for somebody like me who do not socialize much, I can still reach out and be reached out to by wonderful people!