I dont understand why a women or a man cheats , It the same in my opinion . I dont understand that when a man cheats he believes that the women can forgive but when a women cheats that is over the top . I believe its hurtfull from both aspects . If my husband cheats on me , NO WAY i would even think of going back to him and even if my children would live without a dad . I believe that if a person cheats that means he is not happy with his marriage and if the person is not happy then why stay in it . It frustrates me that some women go back to their husbands after cheating on them and when you ask them why they say for the sake of the children ( COME ONNNNNNNNN) i really hate that , why should i live with that man and let my children be exposed to that behaviour , if he cheats once he will cheat again and again and letting her children being exposed to that will torture their life forever coz they will never feel secure again and believe that all men are cheaters . I believe that cheating should never be forgiven no matter what the reason behind it . If your not happy with your marriage just get out but dont cheat on the person who you are with because its devastating for that person to know your cheating on them and its the most hurtfull thing you can ever do to someone.
I dont understand why a women or a man cheats , It the same in my opinion . I dont understand that when a man cheats he believes that the women can forgive but when a women cheats that is over the top . I believe its hurtfull from both aspects . If my husband cheats on me , NO WAY i would even think of going back to him and even if my children would live without a dad . I believe that if a person cheats that means he is not happy with his marriage and if the person is not happy then why stay in it . It frustrates me that some women go back to their husbands after cheating on them and when you ask them why they say for the sake of the children ( COME ONNNNNNNNN) i really hate that , why should i live with that man and let my children be exposed to that behaviour , if he cheats once he will cheat again and again and letting her children being exposed to that will torture their life forever coz they will never feel secure again and believe that all men are cheaters . I believe that cheating should never be forgiven no matter what the reason behind it . If your not happy with your marriage just get out but dont cheat on the person who you are with because its devastating for that person to know your cheating on them and its the most hurtfull thing you can ever do to someone.