Do you think if a women catches a man cheating or vice versa , they would frogive them ?

For me it would be impossible , coz the amount of time and effort the person puts in a marriage and then they get shocked to know that the person is not happy with me for some reason . trust me i will pack my stuff and leave.

The thing i dont understand is why women or men cheat . Why cant they confront their wife or spouse in what they are lacking for them to progress and change . Why cant they sit with their spouse like an open book and say what they feel and what changes they would want . Why is it so hard for that to happen .

I believe that if you choose a person to be with you for the rest of your life , then why not be with them rather than going around .

A remeber a female friend of mine , her husband died and left her as a widow and she was pregnant , she was so sad and upset for his lose and then after a few months she devloped some symptoms of illness , she went to the hospital and was HIV positive and the baby too was HIV positive . From WHO her spouse . That was just devestating . He knew and didnt confront her coz he was ashamed to confront her coz he cheated on her . It shows you that innocent people get harmed for someones mistake .

I hope people would reliase the physical and mental harm it causes to a person if they knew they cheated on them .