Trust me the children will know when they grow up , they will know their father if he is a player or a cheater , but as soon as they reliase they will be devastated and they will say WHy why has my mother stayed with this person and tortured her self to be with someone who has no respect . It will devastate the children more and more and sooner or later they will hate their father for the pain he put the mother in all the years she has been with him . So you think that a women should forgive if she has children , why is that so ?