Well its not about letting khadamma raising the children . Nowadays there are working mums , even abroad they leave them home with a nanny or take them to kindergarten . your saying that most of the parents doesnt know how to nuture their children . At least we dont throw our children in the street when they reach 18 years old and if they stay in the house we ask them for rental money . At least they have a place to go back to whenever they want and will care for them and be there for them always