virgo825......"Putting it simply, when you are welcomed as a visitor in a stranger's house, do you throw your weight around? Do you openly express your views that totally contradict with your host's even when you see him or her totally offended?" .....Lets put it another way shall we . A stranger invites you into his house and then shoves a red hot poker into your ear. Do you say "thank you" or "Ouch"