Excuse moi?? I control someone's life???? how is that?? please explain to me?? I gave a little info about what is that we do as when it comes to the relationship we have with our maid. We have never been mean to her AT ALL. SHE HAS NEVER ASKED US FOR ANYTHING other than the mobile number. Which we eventually asked her.
As to why we leave our son with her, its not YOUR BUSINESS AT ALL. If there was a lack of trust or care, I WOULD NEVER in the world leave him with her. My son likes her, and when she talks to him he is all smiles.
"You guys pull these women out of their countries, and set them to work, give them little freedom, show them little generosity, and make them feel like they are criminals before they have even done something wrong." --- hahaha! u really made me laugh hard and my colleagues at work started staring at me, LOL!!! We do not pull anyone from their countries.. remember that they are the ones pushing themselves out, right?? their resumes are given to us, we dont ask for them. And which little freedom are u talking about? Where should I drop her to feel free? at a mall? park? by herself? she doesnt know anyone. Our friends have maids, they meet with each other. When we go out she comes with us, and she is happy with it.
Since she came here, its been 2.5 weeks.. let me tell u missy that what our maid has been saying is 'I feel very happy with u and feel happy to work to someone nice like u'. This is what matters to me. I do and show good things to others, just the way I want them to do to me.
"Once you have found someone you believe you can trust, and still want her to help raise your children, then treat her like a paid member of the family, and her happiness will be reflected in your childrens." ---- She doesnt RAISE my children girl.. dont you read English??????? or maybe u dont understand it :) She takes care of my son for 6 hours/ 5 days a week. I prepare his breakfast, and lunch, and all she does if feed him. Why would I treat her like a paid member of a family?? I PROVIDE HER with THE NECESSITIES, and in my opinion that's good enough for them. My family is my son, and husband :)
"If you set some fair rules to begin with, and your maid can't adhere to them, then maybe she's not the right person for the job. Just like not everyone is good at every job. Some of these girls probably have no idea what they are getting in to when they sign up for this." ---Thank God she knows everything. To be hones I havent taught her much. She is experienced and that's awesome! being from a 3rd world country doesnt make anyone less important or educated. I bet she knows more about life than you :)
Excuse moi?? I control someone's life???? how is that?? please explain to me?? I gave a little info about what is that we do as when it comes to the relationship we have with our maid. We have never been mean to her AT ALL. SHE HAS NEVER ASKED US FOR ANYTHING other than the mobile number. Which we eventually asked her.
As to why we leave our son with her, its not YOUR BUSINESS AT ALL. If there was a lack of trust or care, I WOULD NEVER in the world leave him with her. My son likes her, and when she talks to him he is all smiles.
"You guys pull these women out of their countries, and set them to work, give them little freedom, show them little generosity, and make them feel like they are criminals before they have even done something wrong." --- hahaha! u really made me laugh hard and my colleagues at work started staring at me, LOL!!! We do not pull anyone from their countries.. remember that they are the ones pushing themselves out, right?? their resumes are given to us, we dont ask for them. And which little freedom are u talking about? Where should I drop her to feel free? at a mall? park? by herself? she doesnt know anyone. Our friends have maids, they meet with each other. When we go out she comes with us, and she is happy with it.
Since she came here, its been 2.5 weeks.. let me tell u missy that what our maid has been saying is 'I feel very happy with u and feel happy to work to someone nice like u'. This is what matters to me. I do and show good things to others, just the way I want them to do to me.
"Once you have found someone you believe you can trust, and still want her to help raise your children, then treat her like a paid member of the family, and her happiness will be reflected in your childrens." ---- She doesnt RAISE my children girl.. dont you read English??????? or maybe u dont understand it :) She takes care of my son for 6 hours/ 5 days a week. I prepare his breakfast, and lunch, and all she does if feed him. Why would I treat her like a paid member of a family?? I PROVIDE HER with THE NECESSITIES, and in my opinion that's good enough for them. My family is my son, and husband :)
"If you set some fair rules to begin with, and your maid can't adhere to them, then maybe she's not the right person for the job. Just like not everyone is good at every job. Some of these girls probably have no idea what they are getting in to when they sign up for this." ---Thank God she knows everything. To be hones I havent taught her much. She is experienced and that's awesome! being from a 3rd world country doesnt make anyone less important or educated. I bet she knows more about life than you :)