Eco-savy LOL you left everything I said and focused on my signature? :-p
I thought I struck some valid points but we never discuss the nature of man because it's actually taboo and goes against everything that we've been programmed into believing is right. One man to one woman, is it Natural or is it social...I wonder :)

Disclaimer! I'm not trying to find an excuse to take an extra wife. Im in the 'comfort zone' and probably surpressed my nature a long time back, which is known to people as love.
In the Quran which is arguably the most scientifically accurate Holy book, it says MAWADA WA RAHMA - respect/affection & mercy - between man and woman, it didnt say HUB and HABIBI -love me tender love me true-*
And when you think about it Love, the emotion is really culmination of a neatly packaged lust and affability but society has cultivated it into a marketably sound 'love package' But lasting relationships are built on something else once the (love)lust and affability wears off.
The lasting sound ones cater to Respect, Companionship, Dependability, reliability, support, compatibility, appreciation the list is long, and success can be found in the fact that when one of these factors wears down the others remain supporting the overall foundation.
If love is what society makes it out to be then why do people fall in and out of it all the time?

This is a different topic altogether, lets stick with the nature of man, what are you're views :)

NUCLEAR WEAPONS: IF AMERICA AND ISRAEL CAN HAVE THEM - THEN SO SHOULD IRAN.