Moral of the story is "stay away from married men" - sorry but you knew he was married and still you went ahead with it - did you not think of the consequences?? no obviously not...
SO you got what you deserved .... maybe next time you will think before you go ahead and wreck someone's marriage...
What do you think a guy who is tryintg to get his leg over is gonna say to you....yes I am in love with my wife - everything is great - but hey how about it ???
Of course not - hes gonna tell you that she is like this and that and does not treat him well so you feel sorry and feel you are the special one....

Wake up and smell the coffee....