CBD: I think I understand what you are saying, but I am not sure I agree that harm is being caused. Perhaps I am biased on this topic because, like many people on this thread, I grew up listening to Madonna's music but I don't think I was necessarily "harmed" by such music. I dress conservatively (by Western standards) and, while I do enjoy dancing, I certainly don't dance like her. But those are decisions that I have made for myself. Isn't that what makes us intelligent beings: the ability to see something and choose for ourselves if this is the way we want to be?

I also disagree with Sandi's comment that we are all being controlled by the media. I don't consult actors and so forth when making simple purchases like toothbrushes. Usually, I buy what is on sale. I'm a simple girl with simple needs.