to stop and be given a dirty finger is quite acceptable. to be collared is declaring war. spitting on your face is to me a very demeaning. i just don't understand why you let that happen.
my father told me when i was young, son when you walk out that door, you must bring with you your brain, balls and shovel for graveyard. as to who will use the graveyard, let your brain decide with extra help from your balls.
i am sorry for you firose.

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