I misunderstood the post. I apologize, I am just on edge here I guess. Busting my backside trying to get a foothold here, been here 3 months and already abandoned, have to take care and do my best (By Allah of course, yes I am a revert Muslimah, Alhamdullilah) for my children and keep them safe, warm, fed and housed. It definately is a mans world here and to be without one is really brutal. My dh is in US having a great time without wife and kids to hold him down.

Ok, enough wah wah. I have to do what I have to do and again, I apologize just misunderstood and underpayed with money flying all around me. Just want a decent life for my children, not a new pair of Gucci shoes or Land Rover.