if the girl has respect for herself and her family, she would not dare to have s_x with married man. by nature, men are weak and they would always want to feel loved. should the wife be blamed for being away because of family need? but you know what lee08, life is just a circle. someday, that girl will experience the same thing and she will tell to herself that "ouch, it hurts". everything will fall into places. that girl will pay. if you love your husband, give him a chance don't let him be on the hands of a girl who will lead him to hell.... to all, please understand my words. my family is a victim of a mistress. but now im okay, though im still sensitive with this issue. goodluck to you lee08.