Your "husband" as you call him is just in the wrong as this girl is ... actually hes MORE in teh wrong because he could have said NO IM MARRIED when she made a move on him .. he didnt do shit , he just sat there and let her do what she wanted with him , and obviously he liked it or else he wouldnt have kept going back to her for more . So obvoiusly YOU (Lee08) are doing soemthing wrong in this relationship and not satisfying him completely . you should rethink your strategy and look at yourself and what YOU didnt do to make him wander like that