is that, in order to bloom into one's full potential, one must die to its self..dying entails going through the process of growing...we go out of our comfort zone, we face and accept criticisms, we let go of pride...only when we do so shall we become open to changes and growth...it is one painful process that we must go through in order to attain the best persons we are meant to be - our BEST SELF that we are meant to become. we are not to be caterpillars forever...we have to evolve into a butterfly with colorful wings and freedom to fly....