There is no perfect man or perfect woman. I used to think there was a perfect person out there for each of us. Now I think there is more than one we can be happy with. Since no one is perfect though, that means there are going to be things about each of us that the other tolerates. It's when you find someone where those things you tolerate are at a minimum and the things you enjoy about them outweigh the negative that you can have a happy and successful relationship.