The current system has worked for thousands of years fine hasn't it? If her mother and father didn't think that it worked for them, would they have gone through the trouble of arranging a marriage for their daughter? Look at the current system the rest of the world has...divorce is rampant and marriage certificates are on a renewal basis in some parts of the world. Nothing is sacred anymore in the West. I applaud those who live in the Middle East for at least staying loyal to their own culture.