let's not get personal here,shall we? :-) i'll ignore the first sentence of your comment and reply to the rest,though.from what i know,no woman/man would exactly like getting slapped....it's just that many south-indian women are raised to be meek individuals and they take slaps/hits/abuses from the men of their family in their stride.some speak out and that's how we hear of domestic violence.
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