whether something deserves respect or not is completely a relative thing,no?what she thinks deserves respect,you may not think so....but true magnanimity calls for not trying to impose one's likings on another....especially in a marriage.okay,possibly you could express your dislike once.whether he/she will respect and accept your opinion should be left to him/her.again,this is just a personal opinion.and also something i follow in my own life.i don't really digest the idea of my husband making me dress in a particular way just coz he fancies it.i would never be comfortable in something that i don't like.no siree!

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How glorious it is - and also how painful - to be an exception. - Alfred de Musset