Straight Arrow said Any one who has a wife or a girl friend and chat with other girl or woman for fun, I consider him totally insane.
This also apply for the woman.
Chatting on the internet is one of the main causes which destroyed many people marriage life."
What the heck is wrong with chatting with a friend of the opposite gender? Absolutely nothing as long as you and your better half are clear where the boundaries are and don't cross them. Basically, if a person is clear on his/her commitments, they would not fall into temptations so easily, no doubt there are other women/men who might try to seduce them - eg. when they're away on business trips, ... on a 5 day project... This is what is meant by character and maturity - the ability to see beyond immediate gratification to the longer term and remember their priorities. And with delayed gratification, things become clear - whether that seductress actually likes you for you or likes your fat bank account (or the perception of your fat bank account - but that's another thing altogether. It is what keeps some men poor but stupidity loves its own company, it seems. I said SOME, ok? GAL!)
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Beauty lies in the eyes of the beerholder.
Straight Arrow said Any one who has a wife or a girl friend and chat with other girl or woman for fun, I consider him totally insane.
This also apply for the woman.
Chatting on the internet is one of the main causes which destroyed many people marriage life."
What the heck is wrong with chatting with a friend of the opposite gender? Absolutely nothing as long as you and your better half are clear where the boundaries are and don't cross them. Basically, if a person is clear on his/her commitments, they would not fall into temptations so easily, no doubt there are other women/men who might try to seduce them - eg. when they're away on business trips, ... on a 5 day project... This is what is meant by character and maturity - the ability to see beyond immediate gratification to the longer term and remember their priorities. And with delayed gratification, things become clear - whether that seductress actually likes you for you or likes your fat bank account (or the perception of your fat bank account - but that's another thing altogether. It is what keeps some men poor but stupidity loves its own company, it seems. I said SOME, ok? GAL!)
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Beauty lies in the eyes of the beerholder.