Well said, QS.
And agree with Khawaga, Colt 45 n others on a similar track. Disagree with jumping to conclusions without properly getting facts straight. Communication is always key. Also disagree with not allowing hubby freedom to have female friends. If he doesn't have female friends, how will he be better able to understand his wife and meet her halfway? Same problem with wives having only female friends - perceptions will be skewered to a large extent.
Medan said "...I was just trying to justify and find out whether my jealous is NORMAL or over react. So, I can act wisely."
- Normal to FEEL jealousy BUT you don't need to act on your emotions. As you said, you are strong enough to act wisely.
"Well, for me sharing in this forum might help other wifes who's facing the same problem as well but dont dare to put their thought in writing."
-Indeed, it will be helpful to some of the many women I know who read but keep a very low profile and never post here.
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Beauty lies in the eyes of the beerholder.
Well said, QS.
And agree with Khawaga, Colt 45 n others on a similar track. Disagree with jumping to conclusions without properly getting facts straight. Communication is always key. Also disagree with not allowing hubby freedom to have female friends. If he doesn't have female friends, how will he be better able to understand his wife and meet her halfway? Same problem with wives having only female friends - perceptions will be skewered to a large extent.
Medan said "...I was just trying to justify and find out whether my jealous is NORMAL or over react. So, I can act wisely."
- Normal to FEEL jealousy BUT you don't need to act on your emotions. As you said, you are strong enough to act wisely.
"Well, for me sharing in this forum might help other wifes who's facing the same problem as well but dont dare to put their thought in writing."
-Indeed, it will be helpful to some of the many women I know who read but keep a very low profile and never post here.
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Beauty lies in the eyes of the beerholder.