heartsbeat, wouldn't go one on one. Never have.

Usually either meet male friends in public gatherings or have at least 1 lady along, if not the wife. Always open the invitation for the wife to come along cos aware of how insecure the wife would feel, esp if she's a housewife who's not very independent (minded or physically). Never leave any room for doubts to be planted and fester into bigger problems.

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