Was helping a friend out with her problems with her landlord a few years back but she took things for granted and eventually, I asked her to pay for the phone bills - cos I wasn't using the phone but she was on it for loooong chats. By the way, she's a doctor and she was earning about 3 times my salary so I thought it was just taking advantage. Kept reminding myself to turn the other cheek but finally, it got to over a limit and I kicked her out. I did warn her - more than 4 times. It's like this with me and friends or colleagues - but there is a limit. Some people shamelessly use other people. They need to change for the better.
Was helping a friend out with her problems with her landlord a few years back but she took things for granted and eventually, I asked her to pay for the phone bills - cos I wasn't using the phone but she was on it for loooong chats. By the way, she's a doctor and she was earning about 3 times my salary so I thought it was just taking advantage. Kept reminding myself to turn the other cheek but finally, it got to over a limit and I kicked her out. I did warn her - more than 4 times. It's like this with me and friends or colleagues - but there is a limit. Some people shamelessly use other people. They need to change for the better.