even my dad had the same mess;;;he dint know 2 say NO.. his younger brothers usd 2 ask money... my dad was abroad tht time.. although the brothers had health , they never do hardwork ,, once my dad dint have money wen they requestd him.. 2 start business,, dad tuk it frm finance & gav thm... wen they got the money thy wantd they live lavish life .... never startd any business... finally my dad learnd the lesson to say NO ....