helen,i totally understand ur situation. Even i m searching for a job also and testing lot of experiences. I dont't know is this same struggling for a man too. Some places i went for interview and came to know that they are looking for man in mentioned post but they didn't mention it on the add..and another funny experience is tht u r confirmed for a job nd later no response from them. Nd also being asked for a different position for which u didn't go for interview even...lolz. U r keeping positive attitude towards job hunting and it has impressed me....best of luck girl!