ex.ex.expat im just surprised that in this modern world the blame is always put upon the woman. a man flirts and give as good as he got and there is no label for it but if a woman tries and hooks up with a man it seems desperate. consider the situation of foolish heart granted that its wrong to be involved with a married man but why is she taking the heat and everyone says she was the one destroying the family etc why don't a single thread saying it was wrong of the man to take advantage of a single woman when he was the one who is actually married? its always the woman who takes the fall for it.