no man will cross the line with any girl, unless the girl gives him permission to! that's how i see it. and if that man is such a pervert, and would do a move out of the blue with no signs from the girl, then the first reaction is what counts. cherry when he did this the first time and stood still didnt even threaten him by words, then dont blame him for what he would do next; u r the one letting him treat u this way. if u go to police and tell them it has been going on for some time now, they will ask u then y did u not report earlier? especially ur boss has got proof (maybe) that u have been paid extra