ofcourse im the wife....for those negative reactions i said if you dont wanna comment then dont....imnot forcing you and why your troubling your self reading this if you find this post so annoying??? why are you so affected anyway??? Are you kind of a mistress or something???? Its just a post and if you find this a bid deal or what i dont care i just wanna post it...and nobody can stop...its a forum......if the MOD will gonna remove this its ok atleast somehow i shared my kind of experience.....to those who pm me thanks for the concern.......and for the hypocrite out there......Well Good Luck.....