They assume that we have different standards for different religions (as this is the way they are educated. I keep reminding them that I consider extremists all the same, regardless their ideology and all religions are equal for me: all are man-made and can be used as dangerous political weapons.
Some of us have the ability to think freely and independently. On the other hand, anyone who has been coercively indoctrinated into any ideology since their childhood, might not be able to think or at least to express in public anything out of that box. Too bad for them, I do understand where they come from, just don’t endorse their views.