This is a very old post,kicked off back in 2007,the original poster either by now got married,or living in an illegal sort of relationship with her Qatari b/f.

If you and your b/f living life to the full,I guess it is about the right time to split up,cause as muslims,you should have clear means of relationship by now,and not undercover type of thing.

Go get married in the Masjid,come back here and ask this ppl about what to do,we are not here to fix b/f & g/f relationships,simply cause this is kidz games,and probably wont last for long,and therfore,government want you to get over this quickly and each one of you head his own way.