Even at times i had been betrayed, Betrayed from the person whom i believed soo much. Its all a game in this system avoiding failure and to see the true colour in the end. And at times speaking the truth may put there wives in too much pain some times men may have to say a lie. but it doesn mean always,sometimes at a real critical situation. Whatever the case cumunication is the key. whatever the disputes if a couple sit together and discuss about the matter instead of screaming, problems can and will be sorted out.