all you guys have said alot but you all seem be missing one important thing, we are all unigue in our own ways..... no two people can be the same and there are differences between striving to be the best and envying and jealousy.some out of too much of these die and some live a horrible and resentful life.....its part of the human nature but when we try to be content with what we are Blessed with we are happy no matter what who have that we dont have. ask yaself how many times you say thank you to who ever made it possible for you to be alive now and stop being envious or jealous of someone else. keep on achieving but dont step on toes you dont need to be stepping on. doing the right thing and not letting others in lead you astray is all there is to life. have ya own mind so control it....no one is to control ya mind but you.