These days the tragedy of my life is the absence of a man but then I can't decide if that is really a bad thing or perhaps a blessing in disguise.. But then as they say, those who have it don't want it and those who don't have it, don't want anything else but that.. A very popular saying in our language "Shaadi woh laddoo jo khaaye woh pachtaye aur jo naa khaya woh bhi pachtaye".. Right?