I went to the supermarket with my friend's 3 year old daughter while the mother was tryind to find a parking. Anyways this male shop assistant / sales man tried coochie cooing that little girl as soon as we entered and then pinched her cheecks and shcok hands with her.. I was mad and furious to say the least.. I just looked at him sternly and said keep your hand off her and don't you dare play with my girl or for that matter with any other girl or boy or else I am going to report you to the management.. Do you understand? He said yes madam.. I said that is better, now back to your work and don't follow us.. It sounds rude but that is what I feel.. I know how these people are.. I have heard many incidents from friends who were abused or molested when they were babies by male shop attendents or male Quran teachers (qaari saabs) or male tuition teachers.. It is alway better to be safe than sorry so I would suggest don't leave your kids in the care of men..