Oh dear! friendship with the opposite sex? This is blasphemy! and married too! This is SPARTA!
So what?
Be friends, big deal...what's the worst that could happen? have ***(just in case moderators are too polite), then smoke a cigarette? Maybe even fall in love? And what's wrong with that? It's better than living your life loyal to a cause you don't believe in.
If her husband loves her and believes in her, and know that she has the same feelings too, then he shouldn't have the weakness and insecurity to be jealous or suspicious. And if his wife really loves him, and know he loves her too. Then you're out of luck getting anything more than a friendship.
So it's perfectly fine, and if the people are **** up in the head, then that's their problem in the first place. I don't think there is any problem with going out with someone's wife or even sharing the same bed...just as long as you're not a rapist or psycho (now that can be a problem)...
I guess that's the question you should ask yourself...Are you a confused person that thinks about these things too much to the point of questioning whether it's ok or not to be friends? or are you confident man who understands himself and his relationship with others along with considering other peoples feelings?
If you are worried about her husbands feelings then you're a very nice man. If you're just worried whether you're going to get screwed or not if her husband finds out, then you probably will...
No offense or disrespect to the OP, just getting the point across :)
Oh dear! friendship with the opposite sex? This is blasphemy! and married too! This is SPARTA!
So what?
Be friends, big deal...what's the worst that could happen? have ***(just in case moderators are too polite), then smoke a cigarette? Maybe even fall in love? And what's wrong with that? It's better than living your life loyal to a cause you don't believe in.
If her husband loves her and believes in her, and know that she has the same feelings too, then he shouldn't have the weakness and insecurity to be jealous or suspicious. And if his wife really loves him, and know he loves her too. Then you're out of luck getting anything more than a friendship.
So it's perfectly fine, and if the people are **** up in the head, then that's their problem in the first place. I don't think there is any problem with going out with someone's wife or even sharing the same bed...just as long as you're not a rapist or psycho (now that can be a problem)...
I guess that's the question you should ask yourself...Are you a confused person that thinks about these things too much to the point of questioning whether it's ok or not to be friends? or are you confident man who understands himself and his relationship with others along with considering other peoples feelings?
If you are worried about her husbands feelings then you're a very nice man. If you're just worried whether you're going to get screwed or not if her husband finds out, then you probably will...
No offense or disrespect to the OP, just getting the point across :)